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Personalising
The Funeral
Following
are some of our suggestions to help you add meaning and a
personal touch to the funeral service:
- Incorporate
into the funeral service the deceased's favourite music.
- Provide the
officiating clergy or civil celebrant with details about
the life of the deceased so that fond memories can be shared.
- Arrange for
the deceased's favourite flowers to be displayed, or for
close family members to participate in the service by placing
a rose on the coffin or in the grave.
- Involve family
and friends in the eulogy, religious readings and singing.
- Arrange for
clubs and associations to attend so that they can show their
support and pay their last respects.
- If the deceased
was an ex-serviceperson, we can arrange for the Australian
or appropriate flag to be placed over the coffin, or for
a guard of honour and R.S.L. service, if applicable, together
with a bugler.
- Photographs
and memorabilia can be displayed in our gathering room.
- An audio tape
recording of the service can be provided.
- A white dove
symbolising the spirit of peace can be released at the conclusion
of the funeral service.
- Place personal
items which reflect the life of the deceased on or inside
the coffin.
- Ask close friends
to be pallbearers. Most would be honoured to carry out this
duty.
- Arrange for
the funeral to be videotaped. Relatives and friends not
able to attend will be extremely appreciative.
- Send out thank
you notes to show your appreciation to those who attended
the funeral service and for their support.
- We can provide
a Memorial Book for those attending the funeral service
to sign. These are only a few suggestions you may want to
incorporate to help make the funeral service special. Please
feel free to ask us for advice or assistance.
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